haha yeah, photography is another endless pit, but there's an end

somewhere... but nothing grows to be propagated =/
If you really want to get a nice tripod, I could only recommend Feisol's carbon fiber setup. The quality is top notch, and it's more than half the price of a comparable model from companies like Bogen. I know a ton of people who use it.
It's also sUPER portable. it'll be lighter than your camera bag by far, and is pretty dang small when collapsed.
You can also order the ball head. Ball heads are basically heads where your camera connects to your tripod, that pivots around a ball. So you release the ball, and you find the angle you want, and then you can tighten the knob and your camera will stay at that exact spot. It's really easy to use. You'll see it on mine when I come.
Pan head means it also has a panning base, to let you lock the ball in place, and pan around horizontally. BUT what I think you really mean is the pan / tilt kinds. Those are basically two knobs / levers, that control the tilt (1 lever) and the panning (2nd lever). These are harder to use, IMO, since you need to control both levers to do basic motion. Ball heads can achieve the same, but provide another ease with just one knob. I can explain it better to you in person.
I've never had a macro focusing rail, lol, but I've used one before. I believe it was a simple Adorama brand one. They are generic, but work pretty well. If you REALLY wanna get into it, then get one from Really Right Stuff. Google search. These are really freakin expensive, but work well.
I'm trying to look for a nice used piece sometime to play with, but people usually keep'em
