Well I wouldn't say I have a ton of experience, there are so many variables you could enter into here that, for instance Ian's rainbow squashing his purple monster.
So what I've seen that may be of use, orange cap got physically killed where it touched a millepora, however it simply grew vertically and started to shade (before I snipped it), same cap vs some other acro (unknown) it didn't skeleton near the acro but it some how knew and literally grew around it (need to snip that one too

) as if it knew it was there. idaho grape (another plating) again damaged near the millepora, but near a tenius (guessing) it simply did the same thing where it grew up and over completely missing it.
Encrusting superman (indo) is physically damaged by some ora coral (unknown acro) and the acro is actually growing on top of the skeleton of the monti, and yes it does "plate" out where it goes vertical rather than hugging the rock all the way down.
So YMMV depending upon the corals, it's almost a sure bet the millepora will squash whatever monti gets near by, but safe bet is to simply keep the monti trimmed back with some bone shears or kill it with some superglue.