rygh said:If possible, take the gift out of the box, and completely re-wrap it - fancy like.
Makes it even more personal, and then they will never know.
sid700 said:This gift is for our white elephant give exchange (for adults only - meaning 18 or above. Not the other meaning). So distant relatives may participate as well as in-laws, college-age nieces and nephews, BFs and GFs.
@Mike -the gift is going to be a notebook or video camera (ie flip) or something electronic as long as it's within budget and it fits in a carry-on bag.
I'm going to do it. If BFs or GFs complain, then they are blacklisted from the family.